If you want men to man up, you’ve got to woman up.
You cannot expect a man to want to protect and provide for you…or even be around you if you have eschewed ladylike behavior.
Men aren’t looking to marry or form families with MEN. THAT would be gay. They want a woman.
I read this story years ago and it really resonate with me. Feminists: Please ponder. (I don’t know what else is on that blog-I’m just linking to this story.)